Success Strategies

Navigating the family court process is stressful.
These tips are gathered from parents who have successfully navigated the system.

The Golden Rules of Engagement

✓ Stay Child-Focused

Cafcass’s only priority is the welfare of the child. Every answer you give should link back to how it affects your child.

Don't say: "I want 50/50 custody because it's my right."
Do say: "It is in [Child's Name]'s best interest to spend quality time with both parents to maintain a secure bond."

✗ Do Not Bad-Mouth Your Ex

This is the #1 mistake. Criticizing the other parent makes you look unable to co-parent. Unless there is a proven safety risk, be neutral.

Avoid: "She's crazy" or "He's a narcissist."
Try: "We have different parenting styles, but I am committed to making this work for [Child's Name]."

Preparing for the Interview

! Preparation is Key

Whether it's a phone call (Safeguarding) or a Section 7 interview:

Quiet Space: Ensure you are in a quiet room with no background noise.
No Kids Present: Children must NOT be able to hear the conversation.
Notes: Have a bullet-point list of 3-4 key points you want to convey. Do not read from a script, but keep focused.

✓ Stick to Facts, Not Opinions

Cafcass deals in evidence. Emotional outbursts can be used against you.

Opinion: "They are a bad parent."
Fact: "On [Date], the child was returned 2 hours late and had missed a meal." (Keep a diary/log).

What if the Report is Wrong?

? Challenging a Report

If your Section 7 report contains factual errors, you can challenge them.

Factual Errors: (Names, dates, places) - Email the author immediately to request a correction.
Opinion Disagreements: You cannot simply "correct" the officer's opinion. You must challenge this in court by cross-examination or by providing contrary evidence to the judge.

Disclaimer: This page provides general guidance only and is not legal advice.

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